October Goals

[Reel Deal]

Bunny, I understand you have a different perspective as a woman but you're way, way, way overreacting. I was basically the same guy as JD in college (minus the gigantic bankroll) and I turned out just fine. Let the boy enjoy the lifestyle because, believe me, it doesn’t last forever!!

BTW, if this type of behavior warranted counseling... well, lets just say there aren't enough counselors in the world.

[Talking Poker]

No kidding.

And he didn't say he was having unprotected sex with dozens of women... he said he was "gettin w alot of girls." I'm not up on my 2007 college kid lingo, but I kinda doubt JD's definition of "getting with" could lead to pregnancy, since he was "getting with" one girl with another passed out on his lap in a room full of people. I'm thinking that would be pretty difficult to pull off using bunny's definition.

[Robbie Robb]

JD = The Hugh Hefner of Missouri.

[bunny]

There is no such thing as 100% protection, unless you're celibate.

He has the money to live an outrageous lifestyle right now and college is probably the worse time to have that kind of money, since we all know how college was/is.

I don't really have the right to say anything, since I don't know him all that well. But from what I've read about him on this forum...seems he's *getting it on with a lot more girls now* than he did way back when. More friends too.

Money talks and people walk, right into... either his arms or by his side.

Be careful, JD. Money allows people to behave in ways, you (or they) probably wouldn't behave otherwise.

[Reel Deal]

I think he's told us a number of times that his friends have no idea how much $ he has.

[Zybomb]

Counseling????????

loneliness??

Man I cant even begin to respond... welcome to the average student in college bunny

[bunny]

I highly doubt that the average student in college has (makes) 400k+ (yearly?) in their personal bank account.


Yes, counseling; why must you frown upon it? He's posted here, about needing help to decide what he wants to do with his life, ....nothing wrong with seeking help from a professional (which we are not)

I might have to take back the loneliness comment, don't really think it fits JD's lifestyle. I too remember my college years and I must admit, drinking and partying was what college was/is all about. (although, my looks might deceive most...I wasn't as *easy* as those girls he posts about).

But, in all honestly, I guess what really bothered me was how he handles his women. Like they are of no importance and have no feelings. There are so many unwanted or aborted babies because of students who (accidentally) get knocked up and ....








Don't mind me, I have issues when it comes to kids. Sorry.

[Zybomb]

His poker salary does not (at least does not seem to) be effecting his lifestyle which is similiar to the average normal college aged kid

[jillaj]

You should have advised just tf/bj's instead. maybe even buttsex no baby problems there.

me personally as a recent graduate I advise college students to live it up cause its gone catch up and to get in where you fit in

[bunny]

Now I've opened up a can of worms, in a forum where most are of the male sex and are pumped up to read about JD's college adventures and only dream of re-living their past lives or walking in JD's shoes for a day. .

I knew this was going to happen. I should have just kept my comments to myself. Ugh....


As for the counseling, RD... I'm basing my opinion on most of his posts, as of late. The few posts where he states he has no idea what career he wants to pursue or thinking about quitting school (not the fun part, just the education part??...meh). I honestly think a counselor might help him, career or relationship wise.

[Reel Deal]

What counselor? He has us!! All we ask in return is for a few photos posted here and there!!

Seriously though, I do understand your concern. However, when I was at JD's point in life I had no clue what I was going to do either. But, unless you're a complete schmuck, things will work themselves out. I went out drinking 4 or 5 nights a week even up to my senior year in college and had no idea what I "wanted to be when I grew up." In spite of that, I still managed to go on and become successful. Contrary to what you stated, I think there are more examples of post on these boards of very mature decisions that JD has made (ie, seeking out financial & tax advice). JD will be fine, don't worry.